• Music

    MY FAVOURITE MUSIC FROM 13 REASONS WHY

    So, I’m writing music post after a long long time. Honestly, I haven’t had the time to discover new music. It’s been a month of Pink Floyd –  it just never gets old. In fact, the older I get, the more I love it. Oh and my brother told me about this really really cool performance by Pink Floyd, it is something – must WATCH! If you have some recommendations, I’d love to know!

    Also I recently started watching 13 Reasons why and not only the show is amazing, but also the music is just outstanding. Even though there are a couple of songs from Neil Young and the Smiths, but it gives a very obscure indie sound/vibe to me –which is great! It can also sound very ‘teenagey’ to some but it goes really well with the show and there are few songs which I really like.

    Starting from my favourite –

    1. My my, hey hey – Neil Young

     

    2. A 1000 Times – Hamilton Leithauser + Rostam

     

    3. The night we met – Lord Huron

     

    4.  Amused – Hunger

     

    5. Love will tear us apart – Joy Division

     

    I hope you enjoy this music! 🙂

  • Musings

    About Honoring yourself..

    8ef01f87b65e16599e0f5ffea42c0a3c About Honoring yourself..

    your needs don’t make you too much. they don’t make you selfish or weak or greedy. they make you human. we all have needs. and those hungers aren’t something we should feel ashamed of. they’re normal, we didn’t get enough of them as children hungers. affections we’ve been deprived of by the people who are supposed to care for us. connections we needed to feel whole and spaces we needed to feel safe. cravings we’ve been taught we didn’t deserve. appetites we’ve learned to suppress and fill with guilt. again and again we’ve neglected our needs because we’ve been taught that they were too much— that we were too much. but we don’t have to any longer. you don’t have to. whether you need support, alone time, affection, connection, validation, or reassurance that you are loved — it is more than okay to ask for what you need. making your needs known isn’t about being demanding or selfish. it’s about self-care. it’s about creating a safer space for yourself. it’s about using your voice and speaking your truth. it’s about giving yourself permission to take up space. it’s about listening to your hungers and honoring them. it’s about honoring yourself.